Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Ties that Connect

In a rare treat, my wife allowed me to go on a guy's trip to Tahoe for 3 days of skiing. Granted, the other guy was my wife's cousin, I nevertheless relished the opportunity to get away from the daily responsibilities. What could be more fun than a couple of guys staying at a casino, gambling at night, skiing at Squaw & Northstar, and eating buffet and beer in between? I looked forward to the trip but felt a little bit guilty for this chance to get away because I knew my wife would have to suffer for the days I am absent. Also, I didn't look forward to missing Evan Mies, my 20 month old daughter. Being the metrosexual dad, I knew I'd miss her.

Sure enough, first day of skiing, all I could see was little kids all dressed in their ski suites and sliding down the mountain in their little skis ~ cute as baby kittens and puppies. It was only the first day and I already missed my Evan Mies. Sure, drinking beer on the slopes and tackling moguls and chutes was a blast but in the back of my mind was a constant video clip of my baby's face and the special way she calls me "Da-da!"

After two glorious days on the slopes and a relaxing day watching the NFL playoffs, I was ready to go home and see how much Evan might have grown. The plane ride back home was excruciating. It didn't help that I had to fly from Reno to San Jose first before heading to my home port of Orange County. The whole trip took 5 hours. It might as well have been forever. 

When I finally arrived home, it was past 8pm and Evan was already in bed. I peered into her peaceful sleeping face and saw a changed girl. In 4 days she grew a bit and had the aura of a girl who has seen the world.  Her trip to Sea World with Mom and cousins broadened her horizon and exposed her to new wonders she'd never imagined. I wanted to wake her and give her a big hug but settled for kissing her on the cheek.

The next morning, as usual, Evan got up around 5:30am and ran to my bed yelling, "Daddeeee!"
My title took on a very special meaning as I tightly embraced my Evan and wondered at how much she had changed, yet felt so warm and familiar.


Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Poop-ku

Pungent odor penetrating
Gather diaper and wipe
Clean butt repeat 

Monday, January 14, 2008

Manifesto

This blog is for all the unsung heros out there that wipe poopy-butt, pick booger, kiss owie, clean yogurt painting off the wall, pick up/down/up/down, all the while desperately maintaining a professional front from your home office so you can bring in the revenue to pay the bills. 

That's right this blog is for the unsung hero's of our modern time. This is for all you dads out there that juggle the baby-home office-wife balancing trick and manage to maintain a reasonable level of sanity.